Leadership through the eyes of Nehemiah.
I can only have a positive influence on others insofar as I willingly submit myself to His Lordship – Chuck Swindoll.
Four hundred years before Nehemiah, in Deuteronomy, God warned the Israelite people of their fate if they did not heed God and do what was right. They didn’t repent, nor change their ways and were eventually led into captivity, and the prophesy worked its way into their lives.
Jerusalem’s walls fell because the people turned aside and did not follow the commands of God. Nehemiah went back to Jerusalem to rebuild the walls. Chuck Swindoll teaches on Nehemiah’s leading and sets four building plans in place, not for hard walls but for spiritual walls;
1. Nehemiah maintained genuine concern for the condition of the walls.
2. Recognise you can’t repair walls by yourself. You need help.
3. Go to God for guidance and correction.
4. Honestly face the situation and determine to stick with it until complete.
Take a moment to survey your walls. Are they still standing? What are your strengths and where do you struggle? What character areas can you improve on? Where is your growth still unfolding? Be honest and commit yourself to work with God in rebuilding your walls.
Your walls should look like the life of Christ and this will equip you to lead those in your sphere of influence. Concern for your town and the people within its walls should lead you to pray for them. Also, look to yourself. Are you part of the problem?
As a leader, you will know intuitively when you’ve taken a wrong step. You’ll feel something isn’t right. Prayer is like a compass pointing the way forward. When things aren’t right; pray.
1. Are you feeling lost; prayer will clear your vision for God’s purpose.
2. Are you feeling anxious; prayer quiets the heart.
3. Are you feeling impatient; prayer leans towards God’s timing.
4. Are you feeling hesitant; prayer activates faith for decisive action.
Rocky roads, broken walls, sinful hearts; stubborn people will stand in your way. Hindrances didn’t cause Nehemiah to be swayed. He stayed true to his path, his calling. He did so by following God on his knees every step of the way.
Don’t lose sight of God. Pray. And don’t stop there. Nehemiah wasn’t only praying; he was also planning. Pray. Set your goals. Think through the hurdles set before you. Look long term. Don’t try for shortcuts.
You can’t be a top athlete without practice. Nor a musician, nor anything of worth and value. Keep practicing until you are top in your field. And if you want to make a difference in the world, listen to what’s going on around you. What upsets you? What injustice causes you to become agitated? Do your part and pray for direction.
Remember; when you walk by faith you will encounter hostility. Those who walk not by faith but by sight will feel the rebuke of God and will take offence at your faith. Opposition isn’t a sign you’ve strayed from God’s path – it’s often the evidence that you’re walking right in it. The resistance arises not because you’re off course, but because you’re aligned with diving purpose. Prayerfully plan how to serve the people and the city.
You can’t speak of faith if you don’t have a plan. Patience and preparation will work its way. Human preparation in prayer and communion with God aligns the leader’s heart and plans to God’s will and way. Planning requires more than prayer, however prayer and waiting sit side by side. Opposition to the plan doesn’t hinder it but only reinforces the will of God.
“Father work in me to prepare me for what’s next. I want to cooperate with You in your plan for my life.”
Nehemiah starts to rebuild the wall and everyone moved to action. Why? Because Nehemiah prayed for God’s will in this situation first, then he appealed to the zeal of the people.
Don’t be side-tracked. Don’t take your eyes off God; not in public, not in private and particularly not when under attack. You may feel like quitting, but don’t stop. Ever. And when faced with criticism from others; pray. Get down on your knees in business, home, school, church and anywhere else you might find yourself.
To apply truth, you must know the truth. You’ll only know the truth when you read the word. Have a crystal-clear vision of what you’re after and take time to read what the scriptures say on the matter. There will be opposition, just as Nehemiah had in building the wall, so will you have opposition in bringing forth your vision. Nehemiah didn’t stop to argue with his detractors, he continued ploughing on.
We must look at criticism, since Nehemiah had much of it at this time. Not all criticism is destructive criticism. One needs to measure a criticism to see if it’s worth listening to. You have to determine the motive of the person behind the criticism. Given by the right person, some criticism is the best thing for you.
You cannot lead without facing criticism or opposition. When it happens, pray about it. If, in your prayer time, you’re given an action to take, make sure you take it. When faced with criticism focus on how you will respond. Pray. Trust God. Follow His leading.
“Father, help me face criticism for my words and actions but also give me wisdom to discern the constructive from the destructive. Help me grow into a better disciple of Christ. Even in choppy waters, help me to look to You.”
Don’t get weary and discouraged. Don’t lose your strength and zeal for your vision. A healthy community won’t easily be pulled down, however on occasion, infection can enter and before you know it, the whole community is ill. This can be both physical and spiritual. Infection is insidious and threatens to tear down any community.
Discouragement, known as the silent killer, is often invisible to others but by the time you notice, it’s spread throughout. Apply the cure (prayer) before the disease takes hold.
Discouragement can be alleviated by directing people’s attention to the Lord, for He is our security. Unify people around a common goal, for clear vision stops one losing their way. Encourage people to maintain a balanced life. Gather people together. A community that pulls together stays strong. Encourage others to step into service, for in lifting others, they rise above self-focus and discover a deeper confidence.
Take note of when and if you sense the discouragement of those around you. Try to find out the cause of it and work towards fixing the issues that have arisen. What practical steps can be applied and what example can you set in place for those around you to learn and grow through.
If morale within the ranks is falling, pray. Not flippant prayers but prayers with meaning and compassion behind them. Compassion is the channel through which effectiveness is born. Take note of what people are saying. Turn hearts to repentance if that’s what’s needed. Rebuke sinful behaviour with gentleness. Correction, carried out adroitly, can make a huge difference.
Get into God’s word. Find out what it says on the matter. Read the passage slowly and repeatedly until you can identity each and every detail. Generally, there’s one central question that could be asked with each passage; what does this passage say?
Four areas to be aware so not to be tempted in self-serving; privilege, policies, projects, people. Don’t abuse them, don’t neglect them, don’t ignore them and don’t forget them.
There may be some areas of leadership which you tend to avoid. Avoiding any issue doesn’t make it go away. Hit these areas head on.
There’s power in the word of the tongue. It’s also the number one enemy of unity. If you wish to have unity in the home or workplace, consider your words wisely.
Words are not always innocent. There’s a danger in using them unwisely. Wickedness and corruption start small and grow large. You can set someone ablaze with the fire to move their mountain, if only you manage your words skilfully.
Satan uses words too. He’ll tempt, lie, and twist facts. He’ll make your life a misery if you listen to his words. Kick him out, right from the start. Don’t listen to his lies. The enemy of God will do whatever it takes to keep you in a place of defeat. A fib here, a falsehood there, a whisper of untruth, a sprinkle of deceit and you’ll soon have drifted far off course.
Nehemiah allowed wisdom to guide him when the enemies brought lies into the camp. If you don’t know what to do, ask Holy Spirit for Godly wisdom. If you want to extinguish the lies of the great deceiver, turn to the word of God and believe, truly believe what the word tells you.
You’ll never walk by faith without enemy attack. Expect it and have the answer at the ready when the deceiver draws your attention away from the task at hand.
As you face hot fires sparked by evil tongues, calmly deny the charge. Put the blame back where it belongs and take your pain to the Healer. On a personal note here; someone close to me said I can’t be learning anything useful with my head always in the bible. I had to take those hurtful words and consider them. In prayer I asked God how to respond. He showed me a vision that this person would in time see their error. God would show the person all the good I’ve done in my prayer time. Good for the area I pray over, for the church I pray within, for the nation in which I pray and for the global advancement of His kingdom.
I didn’t allow that negative comment to throw me off track and you shouldn’t either. Deception, manipulation, intimidation and gossip thwart God’s plan for your life. Don’t be swayed. Keep to the task at hand. Verbal conflict can be resolved, wounds treated and healed, when done in the power of God’s might. Let the healing process begin.
Nehemiah offers opportunity for self-examination; how have you been using your words? Have you been honest in all things? Has this helped or hindered your work? How can you change your vocabulary to honour God, your family, your life and the life of the company you work for, or school you attend?
Without kindling, a spark will go out. Choose your kindling wisely – it will shape the flame that touches others. Truth needs to be at the forefront. Nehemiah cared about the walls of Jerusalem but he also cared about the people within the city. He rebuilt the walls carefully and meticulously with tools and timbers and then the people, with carefully crafted words.
We are in a famine. Frankly, it’s difficult to find faithful exposition of the scriptures today. Sermons are not always accurate and reverent. Instead of letting the Word speak for itself, some preaching leans on personal opinion or entertainment of topical trends which can dilute the message. Pastor Charles Spurgeon quotes; “I do not say that out of judgement. I say that out of an ache in my heart. People all over the world are hungry for the teaching of God’s Word.”
God’s word carries wisdom. It informs and instructs. No life is complete without spiritual dimension. No input or dimension is complete without scripture. And to rejoice is a practice and privileged - it’s the fuel for the destination. Rejoice every day.
Joy is an essential thread in the fabric of life. Life flourishes when joy finds a place to settle in our hearts. Joy isn’t just a luxury – it’s a vital part of living fully. Pray for joy; for yourself and those around you.
Insight is needed alongside wisdom. You can have all the knowledge you need but if you don’t have the insight to apply it, it’s no use. Insight is essential for health. Putting bible knowledge into action via insight leads to a godly life. Attaining insight is a difficult job, but with patience and a willing spirit, insight will come, especially if you ask God for it. True insight comes from God alone and it can be worked into every area of your life.
If you’re seeking insight read what you’re trying to understand slowly and carefully. Repeat and repeat again until you uncover hidden details. Interpretation and insight go hand in hand. Without understanding and meaning you won’t be able to respond appropriately. Look up insight and knowledge and learn the subtle differences between the two.
Gaining insight is like any other area we need to strengthen; it takes practice to master the art. Insight needs the right amount of structured, scheduled consistent time. The right mentors, teachers and pastors. The right amount of teachability, humility and attitude. The right source; i.e.; God’s word and the right response; complete obedience.
Building the wall didn’t happen in isolation, it was a community effort. In bringing the people into spiritual alignment, Nehemiah and other Jewish leaders brought back a passion for the law of Moses. In their zeal and compassion, it transferred to the people and the people responded.
Thankfully Nehemiah shows us how to begin again in a relationship with God. He looked up in praise of who God was. He looked back and recalled God’s faithfulness. He looks at the present and made known his requests to God and he looked ahead, committing himself to the pursuit of God.
Time; life’s great equalizer. We all have 1,440 minutes in a day. What will you do with the time you have? Will you waste it or make the most of it? How can you lead effectively if you’re wasting your time? Ensure your calendar reflects your values. Give God the time He deserves.
I read once; “Time is God’s gift to you. What you do with your time is your gift to God.” Time is precious. Don’t waste it. “Lord, reorder my time, so I can grow closer to you and do your will.”
Godly priorities mean serious thought and planning. Written plans are less likely to be thwarted, forgotten and pushed aside. What are your top priorities in life? Are you working towards them every day? On a personal note; I heard about writing a plan. It took me two years before I actually considered implementing it. Two wasted years because once I wrote my plan, things moved forward with less effort and greater effectiveness. I could have been on track two years earlier.
The Lord asks us to serve, whether employee or employer, whether in the family or in the community. We are the hands and feet of Christ. We serve and give Christ the glory. Every labour done in love is recalled by God. Our final reward is based on personal faithfulness.
Do you ever ask the question – can God use me? Undoubtedly. He can. He wants you to serve Him. Perhaps the question isn’t can God use me but in what way can I serve God?
There are unknowns in life. Not the unknowns of life but the unknown people who stand in the background giving you all their support. They’re in your church, your job, your school, your neighbourhood. Remember to acknowledge these servants who give you so much of themselves.
Personal happiness shouldn’t be your sole pursuit. People are hurting everywhere in this world. Happiness is fleeting. It’s joy that you’re after, the joy that surpasses all understanding and that joy comes when you bless others.
If you can attain joy, even in dire circumstances, you’re a beacon of hope to others. If you’re called out of your comfort zone to live where you wouldn’t choose to live; be joyous. Be excited, sing and dance. Show the joy of the Lord on all occasions. You’ll never know the impact you’ll have.
As a Christian we must strive to ensure an atmosphere of delight. Joy has far reaching effects that you’ll probably never see but it sure is nice to be a blessing to others. You can create joy, for joy isn’t dependent on outside influences but inward focus. And if you’re struggling to find joy music helps elevate moods but only if you’re listening to the right kind of music. Don’t listen to music which speaks on death and despair.
You need guts and gristle to overcome in this life. The fierce courage and inner steel required to say no when it matters most. Or yes, when it’s required. You need strategy and foresight, relational savviness and an understanding of finances, integrity, honesty, commitment and devotion to become a good leader. Most of all, you need to be on your knees in prayer.
And when you get mad, ask yourself; is it the other guy your mad at or is it really yourself? Remember, we need to correct our own sin before confronting the sins of others. If you have sin, address if first. Have an action plan with steps and principles in place. Repair any damage you’ve caused through your own sin.
Repent, forgive (forgive others, forgive yourself) and believe. These are a few of the keys to successful living.